Goal Setting

5 January, 2009

I feel like I am writing this post a few days late, I jumped on the computer while sitting on my balcony at Couran Cove Island Resort (one of my favourite Australian holiday destinations) to find hundreds of posts like this one circulating the web.

So I though twice about it, with so many “New Years Resolution” and “Goal Setting” style posts out there, is it worth me writing my own post?  I set about reading as many of the posts as possible and found as I read more and more, I became more passionate about writing this post.  So many people were talking about goal setting, but very few of them using a proven, goal setting guide.

One of the things that I have learnt over my years of goal setting is that without a proven formula or guide my goals just don’t get achieved.  Think about how many times you have set a goal and not achieved it?  Think about how many times you have dismissed your own goals after setting them?

I know that in my family that New Years Resolutions were often laughed at and were more of a traditional joke then something to guide your year.  With that said though, in my family’s defense, most of our New Years Resolutions were set on the spot with no prior thought.  I believe for a New Years Resolution to be really powerful, to get results, to be your guiding light you must follow this Step by Step Guide to Goal Setting:

1.    Make Space – The first step might seem simple, but it is so often not followed.  How often have you set goals on the run?  How often have you run out of time when setting goals?  Making space could be the most important part of the goal setting process.  When I talk about making space I mean, set aside some time (not just an hour or so, a good half day would work well), find a quiet, personal space (somewhere you won’t be interrupted and won’t have distractions), grab a notepad and pen (no computers allowed, way too many distractions there) and most importantly clear your mind (you can’t make life changing decisions while wondering what to make for dinner).

2.    List 5 Key Areas Of Change – The most liked and universally used number is 5, we know that in offline marketing the number 5 results in the most sales.  By choosing just 5 key areas we are providing targeted, focused, results-driven goal setting while using strong number marketing to make our subconscious more susceptible to our conscious programming.  In most New Years Resolution posts I have read, it is here that they list down some examples of areas of your life you might like to change.  I personally believe that is counter-productive.  It is YOUR life, YOU need to take the time to analyse it to work out what YOU want to change in YOUR life.

3.    Write Your Goals – You have been doing this for years in your mind without realising it. Simply write down under each area of change what your goal is, what you want to achieve.  How you write them and what you say at this point is not important, we’ll come to that in a moment. If you have multiple goals under each key area, that is fine.

4.    Copywriting Your Goals – This is the process of taking what you have written and converting it into a powerful goal using a proven copywriting formula.  When writing sales letters, marketing pieces or even business cards there is a proven formula which will get you predictable results.  The same can occur when writing your goals, use a proven formula for writing your goals and you can expect a more predictable result.

Here is the formula that I Use:  On <insert date> I will be <insert action that shows I have achieved my goal> celebrating my successful achievement of <insert goal>.  For example: On the 23rd December 2008 I will be standing on the front beach at Sonaisali Island Resort in Fiji celebrating my successful achievement of 1000 new customers on the Internet Marketing Coaching database in 7 business days.

5.    Market Your Goals – This is the part where you make as much noise as possible about the goals that you have set.  Tell everyone that you know, everyone that will listen about your goals.  This way those people can help you achieve those goals, as well as keep you accountable to your success.

Now I am not a personal development guru, this is just my personal formula for goal setting that has worked for me.  Some of this is taken from courses that I have attended, books I have read, people I have talked to and some of it is just my personal belief.

I wish you luck with your own goal setting and hope that 2009 is the year that you achieve all that you have hoped for.

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Ever Feel Like You’re In Quick Sand?

25 August, 2008

Have you ever felt like you are standing in the middle of a quick sand pit, sinking further into the sand? Or maybe you’ve felt like you are swimming in the deep end of a pool struggling to keep your head above water?

Well if you haven’t, I can guarantee that by the end of the next 6 months of coaching you will have felt like this at least once! When I first talked to you about this coaching programme I suggested to you that it was going to be a life changing experience for a few reasons:

1. You will learn things about yourself that you never knew and at times you might not like
2. You will learn about a new career path that you could potentially move into full time
3. You will hit challenges that will teach you new things about the internet and about you

I just want you to know that as your coach I understand what you are feeling, because I have been there and I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

I have joined affiliate programs and been rejected, I have submitted 1000s of articles to end up with no traffic, I have hit technical difficulties, I have felt like I was drowning and I have felt like I was in quick sand.

The good news is that because I have been through all of these experiences I can share my learnings with you so you don’t have to make the same mistakes I have :)

This post can really be summed up best with one of my favourite quotes…

“Problems are to the mind what exercise is to the muscles,
they toughen and make strong.” – Norman Vincent Pearle

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On Track Goal Setting

Last week I spent time in our one on one consult to set on track goals with you. These goals are designed to push and challenge you and I can guarantee that you will feel uncomfortable as you work toward these goals.

As your coach it’s my job to put you under pressure, so you can break

through your boundaries and reach new heights, both personally and in your internet business.

It’s important to understand that for the first few weeks, you may not meet your on track goals and this can be both disappointing and frustrating. However, the key here is to examine how you react when you are under pressure and when you feel you don’t have enough knowledge, time, resources, information, etc.

Ask yourself if you are playing above the line (Taking Responsibility) or below the line (laying Blame, making Excuses or Denying). Remember, all the resources you need to be a success online are provided as part of your coaching, the key is to overcome your biggest obstacle… You!

The other thing you will find in any business is that there will be some setbacks along the way. In an offline sense this might be something like Telsta taking 4 weeks to install your phone and internet. Online this may be something like not being accepted by affiliate programs straight away, or not being accepted into an Adclicks program straight away. These setbacks are part of any business and the best thing you can do is to keep moving forward, keep things in perspective and ask for help if you need it.

Once again I’d like to draw your attention to a quote I shared with you last week, from the book Think and Grow Rich…

“The majority of people are ready to throw their arms and purposes overboard, and give up at the first sign of opposition or misfortune. A few carry on DESPITE all opposition until they attain their goal. These few are the Fords, Carnegies, Rockefellers, and Edisons” - Napoleon Hill

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